One of my friends has a weird habit. He blames his friends for everything. He also blames his parents, relatives & all the people who are a part of his life. He admires the lives of others & complains that everybody gets good friends & parents, why not I?
He is always dull & unhappy. He whines about his unfortunate life every day. He never tries to find solution for this problem & blames his decisions. No matter how great his life is, he is always complaining, hating or taunting. He has taught me, how I should not be.
He’s the extreme case. But, a lot of people are ungrateful & arrogant towards what they get or what they have in their lives. They don’t understand that the hatred & ungratefulness in their mind consumes them too. What are the causes of this behaviour?
Easily understandable. Bad patches in relationships or break up, rejection, insult, heavy & bad day at work... there are thousands of them. But whenever you behave rudely with others, do you realize that you make them feel exactly the same way?
I have always mentioned that we, the humans are social creatures. We are interdependent, interconnected. And therefore whenever we hurt them, we are meant to be hurt. The way to be happy is therefore very simple, make them happy. Happiness is the thing which multiplies after sharing. Care for them & you will never be alone. Love them & your life will be full with love. And most importantly respect them.
Your parents have done a lot of things for you; things which you couldn’t understand due to your age or maturity or conditions. They didn’t tell you what they did & expected nothing. Your friends arranged surprise parties for you, marked your attendance, supported you in need just because of the love. It is just that, you could not understand their way of showing love. And you thought they didn’t respect you as much as you did. Everyone on this earth seeks love & happiness.
So, try to experiment tomorrow. Because, Einstein has said, ‘doing same thing & expecting different results is insanity.’ You will need to be an explorer in your approach. Make a list of people who you’re looking forward to meet tomorrow, find out what they like. And try to make them happy. Love them unconditionally, respect them. They will be shocked to see this change in you. But, don’t disappoint. Do this with everybody tomorrow and tell me what happens.
You will feel very happy & light at the end of the day. Do you know why this magic happens? It happens because; you get all the good frequencies. You get blessings of your parents, friends. You feel happy because you make them feel the same way. It is the law of universe. It is a pure science, it is a simple fact. Whatever you do with the world outside, your heart imitates the same thing with you. Recognize their contribution, give & be happy. Bless you! :)
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