When you deserve it, you get it...

Internet is full of questions & answers. The questions, somehow, are funny most of the times. I don’t know the mindset of the people who ask such stupid questions & the people who answer them. Few questions which I came across were, ‘why don’t girls talk to me’ or ‘when will I get married’ or ‘how to get respect from your colleagues’. Pure entertainment. Internet is definitely a good source of knowledge & information, but; it can’t decide ‘which clothes shall I ware today’ or ‘how to propose a girl’!

But because of such questions & answers, a wrong message is getting spread in the society. I appreciate optimism & positivity. But, optimism also has the ground of reality. Seeing big dreams is definitely not a crime, but while seeing dreams also, you have to know your limitations. It is very essential to be capable first. People do not get glamour or money in a night. No matter, how you work hard; no matter, how much you crave, it all comes down to who deserves it more.

When do you deserve something? In simple words, it is, ‘know more than others, work harder than others & still expect lesser than others.’ This sentence is very easy to read or write, but very difficult to follow. But I can guarantee you that by implementing these things; you definitely turn the things your way.

This means, everyone will get whatever he or she deserves right now, at this point. Yes, what you deserve in life varies according to your dedication, loyalty & humbleness. Therefore, if a person is not capable of doing something right now; doesn’t mean, he’s never capable. He can do it, with the determination & the patience.

Steve jobs who is the founder owner of ‘Apple’ was fired from his own company. He started ‘NeXT’ a computer platform networking company which was later bought by ‘Apple’ for $429 million. And Mr. Jobs again became the chief executive officer at ‘Apple’. He didn’t fear the competition because he knew his class. He knew that he had the controls. He was sure of his excellence, he knew, he deserved it.

Being deserving is more important in life. Even if you don’t turn out to be victorious, you do not feel lost, if you deserve the things. Blaming the past, people & circumstances has neither changed anything for anybody in the history nor will it change anything for anybody in the future. To get what you want, you must deserve it first.