Bank transactions are a part of our daily life. We open different accounts in different banks to save our money & expect a good rate of interest & security of the money. When we keep our money for a long time without withdrawing it, we get good interest & finally end up in a better amount. The transactions principle, however, is related with a very fundamental thing in our life. It controls our social life & our relations. It is very important as it makes as well as breaks relations.
Most of the time in the early stage of life, we spend with our parents. Knowingly or unknowingly we withdraw a lot of love from them. Whenever we feel sad, bad & mad; they shower us with their love. Regardless of what happened to them in their personal life, they come to you with happy & smiling face. They protect you, inspire you. But, all the bad experiences we get in a day reflect in our behaviour with them.
We hurt them with sharp words and create wounds that can’t be healed & the gaps that can’t be filled.
We pretend to be very good, when we are in society. We were a façade. We speak very politely & happily with the people whom we hardly know or who are not really part of our life. We get flattered by their presence & share some good time. We always have happy memories about such people. We feel intensely that, why these people are not part of my life? Actually, it is a virtual satisfaction.
The reality is, until we enter the personal space of a person, we never realize facts about him or her. And most of the people react differently to a particular stimulus.
We don’t accept the people who are in our life & neither do we look at our faults. We don’t understand the principle & it makes our relations bitter. A line gets drawn between our close people & we try to stay away from them. It leads to misunderstandings, quarrels & finally ends in the termination of our relation.
You have to put more love in the account, from where you withdraw it the most.
Love them who care about you rather than whom you want to care about you.
Care for those who are close to you & you’ll be surprised by the output. You’ll get showered in loads of love. It has to be both ways.
We have to understand one thing. If we withdraw money from an account frequently & do not deposit in that proportion, bank will discard the account. If you don’t give input, how do you expect the output? It becomes a dry relation without sharing which can break down at any point. It is just like the song from Jab we met.
“Tub bhi chale, main bhi chaloon, honge kam ye tabhi raastein”.
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