You can't keep blaming yourself. Just blame yourself once, and move on.

"My life is totally ruined... I lack the willpower, I'm really bad at everything....." a friend of mine broke into tears. She was weeping silently. When I looked in her eyes, I could feel the intensity of her sorrow. She was totally collapsed. The wounds on her mind were really deep.....


At a point of time, in our life, it happens with all of us. And I think, that it should happen, because it makes you stronger & more efficient. But, most of us, don't come out of that trauma. They get trapped inside themselves.

Just think about this vast world & the endless opportunities in it & even outside it. Do we ever try to find, what is the motive of our life? Why did god send us on the earth? Have you ever seen the horizon during the sunset? Have you experienced the calmness of the twilight? If not, then Do it. 
You'll find that your wound is getting healed.......


Philosophy & now science also says, you are responsible for your life. You create your own world. 
No one can go back in life & change a bad beginning, but anyone can start now & make a good ending. You simply can't regret your mistakes again & again. The people around you, already know that. If you regret them again & again, you're surely attracting the same experiences.


Mistakes are painful, when they happen... but years later collection of those mistakes; which is called 'The Experience' leads us to happiness. Heated gold becomes an ornament, beaten copper becomes a wire, depleted stone becomes a statue... So, more the pain you get in your life, you become more valuable. 

"Don't keep blaming yourself........ Just blame yourself once, & Move on.........."